If you have a Best Friend, marry him/her!

Are you suddenly getting butterflies when you are around them? Does your face automatically produces a smile when you are with them? Does it bothers you a lot when you don’t share every little things with them?

“Am I in love with my best friend” is a question which everybody ask themselves everytime they get close to someone in their circle.

Everyone would agree that friendships helps us to discover good and real friends. A good friend would always be with you in your tough times. They will never let you go alone. They are always there to have a check on you to make sure everything is good. These qualities are certainly hard to come by, when they are real and genuine.

Most people when trying to choose their partner would look for someone who can love them unconditionally. But often they tend to ignore that it is their best friend who already possess all the qualities which they are looking in others.

I have got a small Clipping from “Mere Yaar ki Shadi Hai” movie:

We all have been hearing stories from old couples about their journey and many times they have mentioned that if you are marrying your best friend then that is one of the most amazing decision you have made in life.

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I have been talking to a lot of people recently on this and everybody suggested to not marry their best friend. One of the major concern everybody had is that they don’t want their friendship to get affected if their best friend says no to their proposal and thus lot of people who had best friend weren’t able to see themselves as couples in future.

Today I am gonna you so many reasons on why marrying your best friend can be one of your best decision of life:

More than Hugs

You know it when you guys hug each other, there is something more about than “just friendship”. You wouldn’t want the hug to end and would want to hold him/her forever.

Lot of Talks

Your best friend always has something to talk to you about. Unlike rest of friends who are busy in their own world. Your best friend would want to share every little thing happened in their life with you. Not just that, they are also interested in knowing about you all the time.

Close to Family Members

Even if he/she doesn’t like some of your family members, they would still try to maintain good relation with everyone in your family and try to be in the good books. After all when he/she propose you, family agreeing would be a great advantage.

No discussion about Past

Because he/she doesn’t like discussing about someone who is not in your life currently. And would try to avoid/divert the topic most often. Also he/she doesn’t want you to get hurt by thinking about the past once again therefore they try to skip whenever the topic arises.

Super Jealous

True that! Because he/she wants to be the only guy/girl best friend around you. You can find about it whenever you talk about other guys/girls, they would get super jealous and is one of the important signs to know that they really like you a lot.

Couple Stuff Together

When others ask you, you clearly says “No”. But infact, you do a lot of these things together. Going to parties together, watching movies, going on a trekking, hanging out regularly in coffee shops, etc. Only because you share an amazing comfort zone with each other.

Concerned & Protective

He/She is definitely concerned about your health all the time. Your safety and health is one of top things in their life. They are always protective about what you do, guys/girls you talk with, kind of friends you have, the way you talk to others, so on.

Realtime Updates

Because you are the only one whom he/she is interested about therefore they make sure to get all the updates of your day, everyday. Knowing about your life is so important to them, that they don’t want to miss out even a single piece of information from your life.

Good Memory

He/She listen to your conversations very carefully. Because what matters to you, definitely matters to him/her as well. You can even notice this when you are sharing and the way he/she is listening to you.

Instant Replies

Most friends would skip the conversations to later. But it is your best friend, who would give you instant replies most of the time. Because it is you who is in their mind all the time. And even if they aren’t able to call you back immediately, they make sure to leave you a text to inform about it.

Find time for you

There are so many commitments in life. Yet your best friend makes time for you anytime. They are just a call away from you. No priorities in life are bigger than you. If there is someone who keeps you like that, congrats you have already found your partner.

Everybody knows about it

Damn It! Everybody in the world knows that you guys are not “just friends”, but there is something more about this relation. The way you behave with your best friend, the love and care you show towards them makes everyone believe the fact that you are made for each others. And that’s the most often questions asked “Are you guys just friends?”

Your best friend is your true love. Someone with whom you can spend your rest of your life. And this picture says it all

P.S. Have a best friend who does all these things to you? Then why not make them live with you forever? Think about it.