Why Intelligent people doesn't find love so easily

Relationships are probably one of the most complicated things in this world. In love, you are not just dealing with your own needs and desires, but someone else’s too.

Love is a very beautiful thing and sometime love can even overcome the need of having luck itself. Love is a very powerful thing and has the power to transform people in their lives.

Intelligent people are one of those people who find it extremely difficult to get into relationships. Not because they are not ideal or they have some faults, instead they choose to use left side of the brain more than the right side which usually belongs to the emotional side of human.

Although, a lot of people find it difficult to find love and maintain their relationships. However, this is a skill which everyone wants to learn so that they can grow to another level. If you are one of those folks who are highly intelligent and are having trouble in relationships, then this is for you:

Highly Analytical

When intelligent people face a new situation, they always love to pull out information from the past experience and determine outcome basis that. Using this you are more likely to predict what is gonna happen in future. But relationships doesn’t work like this. Everyday and every person is a new experience. Because you cannot use past experience, so it is extremely difficult to predict outcomes.

Guarded or Introvert

Because intelligent people find it extremely difficult for people to understand them. They start making an opinion that if they open up, it would end badly and their personal relationships might even get worse. So they try not to make the same mistakes again. This means that they would not reveal a lot of information to their partners and ultimately might end up being alone.

Bold Enough

Intelligent people say whatever comes to their mind, but most times people think it as rude. However, it is good to be bold enough to express your opinions, but it might not workout in relationships where you have to be gentle enough all the time with your partner. One small statement which might sound too small for you, suddenly can become a reason for hatred.

Valuing Brain over Heart

Intelligent people know what their brain is saying to them and what their heart is expressing to them. Yet they value more of the brain than heart. Because they try to find logic in all situations, and therefore brain always wins over heart.

Misunderstanding

Because you do your homework properly, you are always misunderstood in front of others. While you can’t completely ignore the way you think or see the world, but people are more hesitant to know you. However, the fact is there is a beautiful side of you in which every bit is worth knowing.

Cannot afford to Lose

Smart people don’t give up easily in a fight. And that’s one of the fundamental reason why they don’t leave any argument with their partners. They take these things seriously and doesn’t let go so easily. It is extremely frustrating to be like that where you always prove your point (ofcourse after listening to their side of the story too). But it doesn't work like that in relationships, you have to let go lot of things for the betterment of your lives.

Prioritize Goals and Career

Because you have high level of intelligence, you always give more preference to your career, business and those things which makes you a better and improve person. Many a times, you give on relationship because it takes away lot of your time and you are just for that in this life. You have already started believing that this life is just not too big to do all the things and you only want to focus on things which are extremely important to you like career and business.

These are some of the reasons I think why intelligent are more unlikely to have a good relaltionship. Do give a read to my article saying why intelligent people can’t find happiness easily.